Brian Lerner

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #8 - Have superficial relationships

Creating strong bonds with other human beings although essential to a healthy and happy long life will actually prove to be a huge obstacle when you need to climb over them on your way to fame and power.

The rationale here is simple. The weaker the emotional connection to other human beings the easier it is to leave them behind, take advantage of them, deceive them for personal gain and completely erase them from ones memory once you reach the pinnacle of your aspirations.

People not as ambitious as you will do nothing more than hold you back and those as ambitious as you will do nothing more than create additional competition during your journey. Keep both of these types of people in check emotionally and you’ll have no problem dusting them under the rug when the time comes. And let’s face it, once you’re a huge success you’ll have access to better looking, more important people. Save your energy for them.

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #5 - Come from a famous family

The Baldwins, The Wayans, The Arquettes and Nicolas Cage. What do they all have in common? They’re famous families. I know what you’re saying. “Nicolas Cage doesn’t have a famous last name. Who the fuck are the Cages?” Nicolas Cage does indeed come from a very famous family. He’s part of the Coppola dynasty, but decided to use a stage name in an attempt to trick us all into thinking he was a self-made movie star. It’s people like him that give the regular non-famous family offspring false hope. Don’t be fooled. If it wasn’t for his famous family Nicholas Cage would simply be making horrible life choices instead of horrible movie choices. 

Coming from a famous family leads to all sorts of advantages and opportunities. Rather then spending years and years building relationships through aggressive networking and regrettable sexual encounters, when you come from a famous family all you need to do is ask mommy or daddy to make a phone call and next thing you know you’ll be dancing like a monkey for Hollywood’s biggest directors or perhaps personally handing your demo to P. Diddy. 

If you weren’t born into a famous family there is still hope. You can always marry someone famous. Or perhaps rent out a pool house and run errands for a famous person. The key is being creative about how you connect yourself to famous people. Being friends with them isn’t always enough. You want to leverage the relationship with embarrassing photos or voicemail messages.

Some people will try and convince you talent is the most important weapon of success. Don’t listen. The nuclear bomb is nepotism.  

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #4 - Have a more attractive face

It’s no secret, people gravitate towards attractive people and what we notice first is a person’s face. Not having an attractive face is not only a severe obstacle to success in the entertainment industry, but depending on your level of unattractiveness can mean the battle was over as soon as you started. No one likes unattractive people. We don’t trust them and are put off by their appearance. Science says so, not me.

Your face is the key to the door that will lead you toward your ultimate goal. Having an appealing face opens more doors. So, be sure to avoid common mistakes such as having a big or crooked nose, having stained teeth with larger than normal spaces between them and of course by no means should you ever have a lazy eye. That’s what we call in the industry a major face faux pas.

It is human nature to want to look at attractive things over unattractive things. The more people enjoy looking at you the more work they will offer you. Don’t blame the industry, blame God.

Disclaimer:

The above advice not applicable to comedy. If you are seeking a career in comedy you are better off being unattractive. Just ask Gilbert Gottfried. See previous post: Awkwardness & Comedy: The Perfect Formula.

Remember, people aren’t laughing at you they’re laughing with you.

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #3 - Be more lucky

Every year millions of people take part in desperate acts of moral compromise, duplicitousness, self-destruction and the occasional compromise of sexual preference all in an attempt to get ahead in the entertainment industry. The desire to win the admiration and envy of the masses leads to incredibly regretful behavior. To all of you hopefuls, I do not want to say that your efforts have been an embarrassingly huge waste of time that you’ll spend thousand of dollars on therapy recovering from, but I will say that they have little or not effect on your chance of success. Turns out, all you really need is to be more lucky.  

I know, this sounds too simple and too good to be true, but trust me it is. Luck’s role in the rise of the famous and powerful has for centuries been overshadowed by antiquated ideas of working hard, networking and honing your craft. Sure, you need to do all of those things because what else are you going to spend your time on, but in the end the single most important factor to achieving your goals is having more luck in your life.

Unfortunately, there is no proven way to bring more luck into your life. Everyone from Jimi Hendrix (acid) to Tara Reid (blowjobs) has claimed to have the answer to unlocking luck, but in the end having more luck really just comes down to being more lucky.

Good luck!

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #2 - Be more egocentric

Convincing others you are more important than they are starts with you believing undoubtedly that you are more important than they are. If you are not completely in love with yourself and truly believe the world deserves to bare witness to your brilliance then how can you expect anyone else to believe this too?

When discussing current affairs, be sure to spin it into a personal story. The suffering of poor and starving people in a third world country hit by a devastating volcano is nothing compared to that one time you had to stand in a subway car in NYC during the summer with no air conditioning on your way to that audition for a national TV commercial.

The more you do daily to convince people the world in fact circles around you the closer you’ll be to your ultimate goal.

Tips for Success in the Entertainment Industry

Tip #1 - Come from a broken home

Divorced parents are the ultimate trauma for people under the age of 20. Trauma gets processed in the brain and released out as creativity and an irrational unhealthy need to be accepted and praised. These two personality traits are integral to becoming famous and successful in the entertainment industry.

Whether you want to be an actor, musician or stand up comedian, having divorced parents puts you ahead of the competition.